I know exactly what you are talking about Geoff and I don't care for the red "skyglow" I see in images either .
For me the key is in the gamma control used at the capture stage . Higher gamma will bring up the proms but also increases the glow . If the proms are heavy with lots of structure I will not raise the gamma to highlight them but lower the exposure a bit to brighten the whole image . I will lower the exposure to find the proms then increase it to darken the image to where the surface detail comes into view . At this point in most cases the proms will likely be difficult to see in the live view but they will still be there and can be brightened up in post processing .
It is much easier to remove what you don't want at the capture stage than after in my opinion .
I posted this a couple of weeks ago and is a good example of what I look for in my capture , first pic is the raw stack before any processing , the proms are hardly visible but there is also no glow . The proms can be easily brightened up in post processing .
Raw Tiff
3 versions of the processed image
Prom alone without surface
Solar scopes (Coronado Ha) 60mm double stack , 90mm double stack , 150mm single stack .
W/L scope Williams Optic Megrez 110mm / Lunt herschel wedge .
Night scope Celestron 9.25 XLT
Mounts HEQ6 , HEQ5 , Losmandy G8